In a man, what I seek is someone who loves God, who makes and keeps a healthy, loving, and romantic relationship with his woman a major priority, is kind, honest, has great integrity, is giving, caring, family and relationship oriented, is into fitness and a nutritionally healthy lifestyle (or open to learning about the benefits of), is youthful in his life outlook, spontaneous, fun loving, light hearted, and understands the importance of and is willing to practice conflict resolution, meaning never going to bed angry. This sounds like a lot to some, but for me, it's the basics needed for a relationship to have a glimmer of a chance of having a lasting and high level of success. I am a fun loving, positive minded, passionate person. I like to be around people who enjoy and respect life and are motivated to continue to reach new goals.